Djames, 58

I am very sensitive, romantic, quiet and I do smoke when I drink and I drink beer socially. I do not cheat. Try as I might, I cannot lie worth a d*mn. I do use fowl language. My bad habit I guess. I am very soft spoken. I do not like to argue and pretty much won't. I hate deception. Hell, I even hate suspicion. No need for it, is there? I have been cheated on, emotionally beaten and kicked around. I am tired of it. So please, if you are not what I'm looking for then please do not pretend to be something you are not.

Oh! What am I looking for? My princess. I know she is out there somewhere. The question is "where". I want to give knee-melting kisses. I want butterflies in the pit of her stomach each and every time I look at her. I want to get anxious when I know I will see her later. I want to anticipate our next time together. I want to surprise her with cards and dinner and flowers for no reason. I want her to feel flushed when I kiss her on the neck or rub my hand on the small of her back. I want to smile when I see her number come up on caller-id. I want her voice and her touch to melt my heart. I want her to feel the same way. I know this kind of love is possible. I see it everyday when I look at an elderly couple that has been married for 50 years. You can see it in the way he pulls out her chair for her to sit or steadies her when she is going up or down stairs. How he gives up his jacket because she is cold and left hers at the house. How he holds her hand in public. How he holds her purse and doesn't think it makes him look any less of a man. It makes him look more of a man because he is doing it for the woman he loves. I am looking for a heart beat...One like mine. I want the whole package. I am a warm-hearted, passionate man. I believe in romance, especially the small stuff that keeps a